Clothing and Colours to Avoid at a Wedding (and When Exceptions Apply)
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Today, let’s talk about a delicate yet important topic: which colours and clothing should be avoided at weddings… and when it’s okay to break the rules a little.
1. White: A Classic to Avoid
Traditionally, white is reserved for the bride (or the partner wearing a white outfit). Wearing white as a guest can be seen as disrespectful or as an attempt to steal the spotlight.
Exception: If the bride has explicitly requested a white dress code for guests—as is sometimes the case in ultra-modern or chic “garden party” weddings.
2. Black: Depends on the Context
Once associated with mourning, black used to be forbidden at weddings. Today, it’s more accepted, especially for elegant evening celebrations.
Exception: If the event is formal or black-tie, a well-accessorized black dress or a dark suit is totally appropriate. However, in more traditional weddings (especially in parts of Europe or festive cultures), black is still often discouraged.
3. Red: Passion… or Provocation?
Bright red draws a lot of attention, which can be frowned upon—it may draw focus away from the couple.
Exception: In some Asian cultures (such as in China or Vietnam), red is a symbol of happiness and prosperity. In fact, it’s encouraged to bring good luck to the newlyweds.
4. Neon or Overly Flashy Colours
Fluorescent or extremely bright tones can feel out of place at a solemn event like a wedding, especially a classic or traditional one.
Exception: At a boho, festival-style, or beach wedding, vibrant colours might be welcome—if they match the theme.
5. Very Loud Prints
Large, flashy patterns can break the elegance the couple may be going for.
Exception: If they’re explicitly requested (floral, boho, tropical themes, etc.)—or if you’re wearing a subtle printed accessory (like a bow tie or scarf designed by Coo-Mon 😉).
Cultural Differences
African Weddings
Outfits are often colorful, vibrant, and majestic! White can be worn by several guests, as well as bold prints. What matters most is respecting the family’s choice of fabric or theme.
Asian Weddings
In China, white is associated with mourning and should be avoided. Red is king—it symbolizes luck and joy.
Western Weddings
Traditional rules still stand (no white, black with caution), but guidelines are becoming more flexible depending on the couple’s preferences.
Middle Eastern Weddings
Luxury, sparkle, embroidery, and rich colours are often expected. However, for some religious ceremonies, specific dress codes may apply (e.g., long sleeves or modest cuts).
Final Thoughts
When attending a wedding, always keep in mind: respect for the culture, the theme, and most importantly—the couple.
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